Too much grief. That’s the phrase that’s been going through my head a lot the last couple of weeks. It really started though about six months ago when I was laid off from my job unexpectedly. That really messed me up on just about every level. It didn’t help that I’ve been in a crisis…
Navigating life with ADHD requires an ever-changing mix of high tech and low tech processes and tools. One of the things I‘ve been realizing is that I need to have a notebook on me at all times because handwriting important notes imprints them on my brain better than typing them into an Apple note. But…
2025 joins an uncomfortably large group of years recently that I am happy to punt into the sun, but it wasn’t all misery and depression. I did read some good books (I also did some good writing, but we’ll get to that in a bit). One cool thing I did this year was finally start…
J. Todd Scott is one of of those folks I first met through social media and have had the pleasure of also meeting in person. I’ll always have a special affection for the first time we met because it was at the Bouchercon Putnam author party and I was there as a Stuart Woods co-author.…
I’ve known Michael Koryta for almost 20 years and he has read more terrible drafts of my attempts at a PI novel than anyone not related to me should ever have to read. He is one of the most generous and supportive writers in a community known for pretty generous and supportive authors. He’s never…
This is 49. I’m tired, I need a haircut, my therapist is late for my appointment, and this is the first birthday I’ve celebrated in a while without having a job, but I’m surviving and that seems to be an epic accomplishment these days so I’ll take it.
Today is my last official day with Industry Dive (Informa TechTarget whatever). After three years at my current job, my position is being eliminated as part of organization-wide restructuring. Right now I’m mostly stunned and a bit disoriented, but soon I will recover and dig down deep and find all of the reasons this is…
I’ve been on a run lately of memoirs and biographies of writers, actors, and performers I admire including Kelly Bishop, Carole King, Marvin Hamlisch, and Elmore Leonard. As much as I love reading stuff like this, it can also be an exercise in frustration for me as well. I lament that I wasn’t born to…
Other than two rejections from Ellery Queen Mystery Magazine, I haven’t had a short story rejected in more than fifteen years. I’ve had two this year already. That obviously hurts my confidence, but what’s worse is that I should have never written them in the first place. One of the reasons I haven’t had a rejection…
Note: Various versions of pieces of this appeared recently across my social media profiles and a few group texts, but I wanted to gather it all together in one place and smooth it out a bit, so I hope if you’ve already read some, or all, of this you don’t feel cheated. All I’ve ever…